Saturday, August 8, 2009

I am a train traveler convert



I wrote most of this on the train - my first train trip in the USA. Did it today, August 8 . . . from Austin to Norman, OKie land.

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So I decided to take the train from Austin to Norman. It costs a bit more than going by car, and it takes longer, its cheaper than plane (I am guessing, I never did check) . . . it seems definitely worth it.

The train station in Austin seems a bit of an abandoned building, but, hopefully, Lucy (my car) will be fine there for the week. Got there early, way early. Blame the travel jitters. I saw my fellow travelers there. Much more than I expected. I did hear the engineer say that this would be a full trip.

I can deal with this kind of full.

Right now I am in Temple, Texas, a smoking stop for the train and to get new passengers. Speaking of, it is not as crowded as a plane (read: not sardine cans here). The aisles are unbelievably wide. The seat reclines so far back you can actually sleep comfortably in it. The gentleman in front of me has. He falls asleep every few seconds and snores himself awake.

His wife just made him sit up straight from now on.

Behind me, someone is listening to Louie Armstrong and sleeping.

And, the coup de gras, there is so much astonishing leg room. You know how much you wish you could get those front seats on economy on the plane? Sure you do. You know, the ones usually given to the pregnant woman or the dad with two kids. Roomier than that. You know how in the front of the plane, those lucky bastards of first class can actually stretch out their legs? Try a little more.

They do have a dining car (take THAT planes!) . . . burgers, pizza, beer, wine. Reasonable prices. Seriously. You’d expect to pay about $7 for an Angus beef burger, right? Am sure there is some trick to it, but I don’t care. I can actually eat in here.

There is an observation car with nothing but windows wrapping themselves all around you. Since it is on the upper deck, the view is amazing.

AND you can walk around from car to car. Sit pretty much anywhere; once you claim it, it’s yours. At your own risk, of course, cause these puppies move from side to side quite a bit – almost like a cruise ship. But no seat belts for turbulence.

Right now, to get in the mood, I am listening to “This is Big Band.” It is a new band that plays swing style, 40s type big band music. Just seems to go hand in hand with the whole travelling by train routine.

And if my battery decides to start running out, no need to worry, there are plugs conveniently placed next to you.

I am reserving a final judgment until I get to Norman. I have a stop over in Ft. Worth and then a non-stop to Norman, OKie land. In the mean time . . . there is a burger, or even a pizza, with my name on it and the dining cart is open.

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Just had a great Angus beef burger (with FREE cheese), chips and a drink ($7.77 – in case that interests you). Because of the way the tables are set, for more than just one person, you get to share your table with someone if you dine alone.

Met a fellow traveler – Frank – he is headed out to Duluth via Chicago and St. Paul’s. His trip will be an overnight trip so he got a sleeper. He is what I call the preacher of the train travel. Frank told me about a trip he made when he was 13 or so. His parents decided he needed to experience new things and they went on a two-week train trip called the American Express.

He traveled from Chicago, around California, through the Grand Canyon and even into Tijuana. It was basically a trip all around the U.S.

He did say that this was one the few good things his parents did for him. Although it would have made a great conversation I decided not to pursue that topic and stuck to talking about train rides.

He lives in San Antonio but travels to visit family and he does it by train every time. Sure, you can’t help but go by plane when you are talking over seas. Frank mentioned that the last time he went anywhere by plane was probably 2 or 3 years ago.

The one word that Frank used to describe train travel sticks in my mind because it fits so well: civilized. No canned fish on an overcrowded plane, no checking and double-checking your identity, no having to wait to get to the airport to find some food, and no getting to your destination all disheveled and tired because the traffic on the interstate was horrendous.

Have I mentioned how much roomier these seats are?

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I do have to add a caveat . . . beware the weirdoes in the Fort Worth station. You have your train travelers but also your bus riders . . . and we know those, right?

While I was sitting at the station, some woman was staring at me, while sitting next to me. I turned to face her and she said "I don't know why she asked me. I haven't decided what to do. I come here to decide what to do. I haven't decided yet. I am deciding. So why does she ask me what I want to do?"

Smile and nod. Smile and nod.

(To me - while staring and smiling) "You look like a rocker"

"Am not"

"I know. But your ears are pierced" (I only have one, she assumed the other)

Finally, she slowly scooted and swung her legs and off she went.

Guess she decided.

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Overall I will give the experience a 100, A+, whatever you want to call it. Loved it.

By the way, I am checking on Thanksgiving and Christmas trips also.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Flashbacks


Its been a weird day.

I have no idea why, maybe its the humidity or the sun and breeze or the building I'm working summer school . . . I have been flashing back to Puerto Rico ALL morning. I mean like I expect to hear Spanish and see green luscious trees, gorgeous bright and colorful flowers, a warm breeze. The dark rain laden clouds running around today did not help.

The building made me flashback to the Universidad de Puerto Rico . . . I expected to see the familiar buildings, the people, the cacophony of noise, the fried food smell. Oh I want one of those ham, cheese and fried egg sandwiches now.

Driving home I was looking for the traffic, the insane no rules driving, the huge amount of people moving everywhere.

There's a Spanish word . . . añorar . . . a deep full hearted feeling of longing for something . . . THAT is the best description I have for it. Añoro a Puerto Rico. I long for the island breezes, the beaches, the warm and humid days, the insanity of so many people in one little place, the friendly people everywhere.

Maybe I'm just longing for the past. For the time I lived there. For those easier going times and having little cares. Maybe I am just getting too old.

I miss the island living. Its different from continental, mainland living. Its the feeling that this is all there is, there is no more, there is no way out, so live it up as best you can with who you can and when you can. That weird "No exit" type of thinking creates some strange behavior. So why do I want that?

Maybe I AM longing for a simpler life. For the past when I did little and enjoyed more. Maybe I just miss it, it is a nice place after all.

Its just weird.

Of course, once I am there (not saying I'm running away to it here), I will start to remember the things I didn't like about it.

But still.

Maybe its just my grandparents around me longing to go back there. Or maybe they are calling me to go there for some weird reason.

Have no idea where it came from. But it head slapped me really fast and it won't leave easily.

I think I'll go to sleep with the sounds of El Coquí tonight.

Friday, July 24, 2009

National Health Insurance


According to statesman.com:

"Every month, 24,070 Texans are losing their health care coverage, according to a report released today by an advocacy group.


The report by Families USA, which advocates for quality, affordable health coverage for all Americans, comes as Congress is weighing health care reforms pushed by President Barack Obama.

The report says that between January 2008 and December 2010, 6.9 million Americans lost or will have lost health coverage, including 866,580 Texans."


With all this, people are still up in arms about this, totally against it. Why? I don't understand. Socializing Medicine? What's so bad about that if it saves lives? The economy is destroying people's lives. People can't afford health insurance, businesses can't (or won't) pay for it.

Things are bad right now. We need to help people. I heard on a TV show "If you hurt one, you hurt all." If we allow one to be hurt, if we allow one to suffer, if we allow and turn away from someone needing our help, we hurt ourselves by becoming calloused and allowing people to be hurt by all this.

I'm glad and happy for some that the economy has not hurt them. I am blessed to know that, no matter what, education will always be needed, so I will have a job. Insurance? So far, so good, but you never know. I want to know that I can fall back on something.

I see my parents paying HUGE amounts for their insurance. And it will only get worse. Why can't they have a government issued insurance to help them get by. Medicare is NOT an insurance policy. It merely pays part of what they have to pay, a small part.

We will all be there at some point folks.We will be old. We will be considered too much of a risk and therefore uninsurable. We will pay huge amounts for crappy service. We will all need something else to help us.

We won't be healthy and working forever.


Saturday, July 11, 2009

¡Sorpresa!

This weekend, kind of almost like last minute, I decided to come visit mom and dad. SO well prepared that I left my shoes at home. Its flip flops to church this weekend. Anyhow, it was funny cause I called them, mom answered and while we talked she asked why I was calling, I said "well, I just didn't want you asleep when the surprise arrived", "What surprise?", "I'm half an hour from Norman."

Of course, insanity ensued, why didn't you tell me, the house is a mess, and your room is not ready.

Well worth it. Have helped them with a few things but there is A LOT to do in this house. Today, hair cut. I like my hair long . . . but honestly, in this heat, only short hair can survive!

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Farrah Fawcett


You know, with all this insane media attention to the death of Michael Jackson and his weird and bizarre life, one quiet and very strong woman has been pushed aside . . . Farrah. She lost her battle with cancer the same day that the weird one died. And very little attention has been given to her, in comparison with MJ.

If you get a chance, watch the documentary she made about her battle with cancer.

It made me admire her and marvel at her strength. A few parts broke my heart and some made me angry. But overall, she showed grace, strength and beauty in the face of something difficult.

Friday, June 26, 2009

Summer School





OK, have to catch up whoever reads this. My family came in to celebrate my birthday and to celebrate my nephew's graduation from UT Law School. It was wonderful to have mom and dad here in my house. I liked taking care of them and having them around.

The 50th birthday celebration on Friday night at my department chair's house was great. It humbles me that she did that for me, she allowed me to bring my family to the party. Already, just us, that's seven people. Wow. People she did not know but wanted me to have a great time. Nice.

On Saturday we went to the Sunflower Ceremony at UT and then to a party at a friend of Christopher's house. This friend, italian guy, cool guy, just gave up the house while he was gone somewhere else.

And then, Sunday, after church, we went to the County Line for some steak and good times. I love my family and I love our times together. Its so pleasant and fun.

Wish Anamaría had come. She was at a wedding. In other news, she has MS. She has been ill and it took a couple of doctors to come up with the reasons she was sick, but she does. She has moved to another's family house. She may be the nanny or just wants to get away. All I can do is let her be and pray for her.

Am teaching Summer School at Crockett High School. I really enjoy it. It is easier, funner, a little more relaxed. So far, the Principal seems to be very happy with me. Its weird. I have always been uncomfortable with people praising me like I am some sort of amazing person. I'm just me, OK? Just me. This is what I do and what I like to do.

Granted, now that my former principal left I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders and I can just be myself.

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Get down with the sickness.


Don't know if I mentioned it - I teach high schoolers.

Today, well, typical day. No A/C. And one kiddo sick. He couldn't leave school - too many absences already (skipped quite a few). The students have up to nine absences. He's got nine already. Fever of 99.5. Strep and sore throat. Coughing. In my room. Nurse didn't want him in her office. Mom wouldn't let him go home - guess there's issues there. And he is sick in my room.

Wow.

Thanks.

Sunday, April 26, 2009

Incredible experience


Wow

Just got home a few minutes ago from a great field trip. Last Tuesday, Master Sergeant Antoinetta Williams, retired air force sponsor of the ROTC at Bowie (where I work), sent out an email stating that she needed some help. The Colonel would not be able to help take the seniors on their Senior trip and she needed someone to help drive to Ft. Worth. I sent out a response, a bit late on Tuesday, thinking that everyone would jump at the chance to get away and have some fun.

I was the only one who responded.

So, the long and short was this: I got to travel to Ft. Worth - to a Navy base. We ate lunch at the base (after I was dully approved by the powers that be). Then we got to our rooms - an amazing suite with living room, mini kitchen and TWO TV sets (One in the living room and one in the large bedroom). Then we went to the shop - wow, loads of great stuff there. Later that afternoon we met with someone who gave us a great cultural insight into our relationships with others - specially Iran. Great insight and amazing information.

Meanwhile, I was getting along so well with these kids. They are polite, intelligent and loads of fun.

That evening we went to Dave and Busters for some good food and video games. Back to base, bed and up early the next morning for breakfast (again, at the base). After breakfast Sarge and I went shopping at the base store (cool navy, marine and air force stuff) and away from the kiddos. And then, the piece du resistance - a day at Six Flags.

Well worth the trip. I really loved it, specially being able to stay on base with the military personnel and to meet many of them.

I consider myself lucky.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Happy Easter


Back in OKie land visiting the fam.

That sounds so Californiae.

Anyhow, on the way here we (am traveling with my nephew and niece in law) saw the fires that ravaged Texas and Oklahoma. They looked damned scary. We had to close the exterior air vent - cause the smell was getting to us and the stuff was getting in my eyes.

Anyhow, got here WAY late - mostly because of closures and constructions all over I35. Yesterday, we had a campus Way of the Cross. And services were at St. Mark's (one of the three Catholic churches in this small town). Tonight we go to Mass at 8:30 PM.

Side note - wish I could do the one in New York.

Meantime, Mom and Dad are pretty much the same. Dad has a hard time walking. Any little bump on the walkway or cracked sidewalk is a potential fall. He refuses to use a cane - I think cause he remembers his own mother (Abuela Pepa) who always used a cane and died surprising everyone of a heart attack. There is a cane available - María bought it for Mom a few months back. Maybe there is a connection between cane and getting old and dying. Mom is always watching out for him. I think between the two of them, Mom is doing better than Dad. During the Way of the Cross I was holding both of their arms - dad on my left and Mom on my right. Both walk very slowly - Dad seems more frail than Mom.

Dad has such a hard time walking that he just can't step over Gina (a very small pomeranian), even when she is laying down. He also has a hard time remembering where he put things. Oh, the keys he lost last time I was here - it was in his shirt pocket and it got washed and dried. Luckily the car alarm button still works.

Mom is running late to quite a few things though. Don't know how she makes it to work on time but I do know that she tends to run late quite a bit - at least to family things (or church things like the Way of the Cross).

Well, enough. Have a very Happy Easter and enjoy yourselves.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Movie screening


One tradition that we have started during my visits is - watching movies together. Mom's favorite stuff is suspense. Dad loves any sports movies. Me? Pretty much anything.

The movies I have seen, whether with mom and dad or alone, this Spring Break are:

Igor (funny! and more adult than kid - I mean, a suicidal cynical rabbit? DARK humor - a bunch of blind kids singing "I can see clearly now"), The Clone Wars (eh.), Rocknrolla (Guy Ritchie is BACK! Loved it!!!), La misma luna (Great story, very tender, emotionally involving).

Going to eat my Spanish tortilla now!

So, yeah, not much, but there ya' go.Add Image

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

FRAK!


No idea what to title this one. Just, well, its there.

Today dad and I went to Walmart. Turns out that they had left some ham that they bought over there. They could not find it yesterday so they knew they had left it. No receipt. Well, naturally (I expected this) they couldn't do anything so we bought another pound of ham and sliced it.

Come home and mom finds yesterday's ham (the missing ham) in another section of the fridge.

Later in the day, dad can't find the car key. Typical of my parents - they have a key that runs the car and one that opens the truck. Because the "trunk key" broke in the lock and they haven't fixed it so they have a trunk key and a car key. Well, dad can't find the trunk key. Can't figure out where it is.

The part that gets me was mom's comment to me just a few minutes ago. "He does that, you know. He's been doing that more often. Leaving things and not knowing where they are." Which makes me wonder - WAS the doctor correct when she made her "mistake?" (Check an earlier post). Or is this just regular man getting old and absent minded? Cause he already was you know.

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